DESCRIPTION: EXPL: everybody has a different idea of what a friend should be, and often its even different ideas, because different friends mean different things to us at different times, this was one attempt at an answer, I think ultimately, for me at least, friendship is an issue of security, of knowing someone understands you and accepts you for who you are and will be there for you, that when it comes down to it, they care, and you care back, that you would rather have them in your world than not